Every Word

Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.
Ephesians 4:29 NLT

I read those words this morning and was deeply convicted. Let everything you say be good and helpful. Ouch.

You see, I was upset with a friend and I was thisclose to letting her know that I was upset. I was even thinking about leaving a voicemail telling her why I was upset. But I didn't. And I am so glad that I didn't.

My criticism of her behavior would not have been "good or helpful." It might have even damaged our friendship. Yikes.

I think I have a good handle on not using "foul or abusive language." I do have occasional moments. But making every word "good or helpful" is a tough assignment. Every.Word. Not 50%, not 75%, not 99%. One hundred percent. All. Every. No exceptions.

I am thankful for this stop-in-my-tracks moment. I needed to read those words from Paul's letter this morning. Thank you, Lord.